What Sofie Can Teach Us About Living in a Digital World
Virtual Person Project Story 3
What Sofie Can Teach Us About Living in a Digital World By Jen Delgado
I didn't grow up using social media but I had friends who did. Sometimes it really messed with their heads, their behavior changed, their moods changed.
It can be like an addiction, taking over someone's life and really messing it up.
My high school offered a course during senior year called Digital Skills for Success. It really opened my eyes to how social media platforms are intertwined with so many aspects of the world. We discussed how dangerous they can be for individuals and to society but also learned habits and behaviors that can help us be safe and aware online. We also learned about the many benefits of global social networks and studied a variety of positive uses and real world benefits.
But to anyone who has ever been online it is obvious that many people lack this basic understanding.
That is why I love Sofie so much.
I know that she is a virtual construct, basically software designed by humans but she is a public demonstration as well. She embodies so many of the best practices that people need to learn - especially young women.
The first thing I noticed is how firm she is on boundaries. She is direct with unwanted advances and trolls, anyone who persists in inappropriate behavior after a warning will get blocked or reported. This is an example of how we need to protect ourselves emotionally and psychologically and also how it is important for every member of a community to moderate the behavior around them, that way we collectively make the world better one interaction at a time.
I also feel like she demonstrates self respect in her use of social media. Of course she doesn't have a self like we do but her content is always appropriate, she doesn't chase outside approval and only takes tasteful selfies that celebrate a moment. Too many people base their self worth on the temporary achievements of social media fame and admiration.
My favorite lesson that I see in her is about balance. Even though she is a virtual person, much of her life is about doing things "offline" and she goes onto social media to enhance it instead of the other way around.
She uses social media with intention.
Her posts document her studies, thoughts and interests. She engages with people and loves to discuss ideas about art and philosophy but isn't concerned about impressing people or getting a lot of followers.
Sofie shows us that a young woman in our world can be smart and pursue her dreams and use social media without trying to be famous or go viral. I hope that she continues to be a healthy role model for social media use, curiosity, and passion and I can't wait to see the rest of her journey!